All single, engaged, married or divorced women of
all ages please join us for
Every Woman's Battle
Based On a Book by Shannon Ethridge
When does an affair begin? Not with the first forbidden touch...but with the first forbidden thought.
There are secret battles that go on inside a woman's heart and mind. While it may be true that
women don't necessarily look lustfully at men, they engage in mental fantasies. A woman's
battle for sexual integrity is just as intense as a man's, but may be more costly.
This Sunday school study will be taught by Bright Star’s very capable
female leaders. For additional information call 773-373-5220 or email drshalandadexter@aol.com
You can purchase the book from these online retailers:
Course Dates & Times
December 4th - February 26th
Class will meet every Sunday from 9a.m. - 10:15a.m.
Course Instructors
- Minister Annette Barnes
- Evangelist Connie Rogers
- Elder Jackie Lee
- Evangelist Sharnia Lashley
- Sis. Christie Knight
- Lady Jo Jo Harris
- Minister Dominique Horton
- Dr. Shalanda Dexter
- Missionary Devolonne Carter
- Missionary Linda Carter
Study Schedule:
December 4
“Why Do Women Cheat?” (Minister Annette Barnes)
We often discuss infidelity among men. Statistics now show that women cheat as often as men.
The question arises why do women cheat? We will discuss what draws women into affairs and how we can avoid these pitfalls.
Assignment: Read “Introduction” and Chapter 1 “Not Just a Man’s Battle” in Every Woman’s Battle.
December 11
“She’s Gotta Have It! —Understanding Our Sexual Needs?” (Elder Jackie Lee)
Women are sexual beings. What are our sexual needs? How are our needs unique and different from men?
In this class we will discuss how to address those needs and how to maintain our sexual integrity.
Assignment: Read Chapter 2 “A New Look at Sexual Integrity” in Every Woman’s Battle.
December 18
“Sex, Lies, & the Internet” (Dr. Shalanda Dexter)
We live in a world that is filled with lies and myths concerning ourselves as women. These lies and myths can
cause us to be in bondage so that we cannot discover God’s plan for sexual and emotional fulfillment. In this we
will discuss these issues and learn God’s truth.
Assignment: Read Chapter 3 “Seven Myths that Intensify Our Struggle” in Every Woman’s Battle.
January 1
“It’s Time to Make a Change!” (Missionary Linda Carter)
Think about your personal life and your relationships? Are you fulfilled? Are you satisfied with your relationships?
We can’t change people but we can change ourselves and our responses to individuals in our lives.
Assignment: Read Chapter 4 “Time for a New Revolution” in Every Woman’s Battle.
January 8
“Our Battlefield: Guarding Our Minds” (Evangelist Sharnia Lashley)
Our greatest battlefield is in our mind. We must guard our minds. Our actions come from our thoughts.
If we do not guard our thoughts, we will make unwise choices that can have devastating affects on our lives and
the people we love.
Assignment: Read Chapter 5 “Taking Our Thoughts Captive” in Every Woman’s Battle.
January 15
“Our Battlefield: Guarding Our Hearts” (Missionary Devolonne Carter)
Women are emotional. God made us that way. Our emotions are good indicators for us to understand our heart.
One the greatest challenges that we face is guarding our heart. When our hearts are abused or misused, we can
become bitter and angry. Likewise when we guard our heart and receive love and affection we thrive and grow.
Assignment: Read Chapter 6 “Guarding Your Heart” in Every Woman’s Battle.
January 22
“Our Battlefield: Guarding Our Mouths” (Elder Jacki Lee)
Women by nature tend to talk more than men. Often we talk more than we listen. Often the words that come from
our mouths can destroy or build up our relationships. In this class, we will discuss the importance of listening and being
mindful of what we say to the people that we love.
Assignment: Read Chapter 7 “Locking Loose Lip” in Every Woman’s Battle.
January 29
“RESPECT: Building Good Boundaries” (Lady JoJo Harris)
Dr. Phil once said that, “You teach people how to treat you!” The responsibility for how we are treated is our own.
When we do not build good boundaries with the people that we love, we can violate ourselves. Love means sacrifice but
we can never sacrifice our voice or our spirit.
Assignment: Read Chapter 8 “Building Better Boundaries” in Every Woman’s Battle.
February 5
“Letting Go” (Sis. Christie Knight)
When we have been hurt, traumatize, or abandoned, one of the most difficult things for us to do is to let go of the pain
and move forward. Often we hold on to our pain as a means of protecting ourselves from further hurt. This protective
boundary can prevent us from being open to new relationships. We can never allow our past to control our present.
Assignment: Read Chapter 9 “Sweet Surrender” in Every Woman’s Battle.
February 12
“Learning to Exhale” (Evangelist Sharnia Lashley)
How do you learn to breathe again? After we let go, we must move forward and reach our destiny. Sometimes we have
to go back and repair relationships that we have damaged and asked forgiveness of those we have hurt.
Assignment: Read Chapter 10 “Rebuilding Bridges” in Every Woman’s Battle.
February 19
“Safe in His Arms” (Minister Connie Rogers)
God is our first lover and husband. We will never be able to be a wife unless we know how to rest in God’s arms
and His covering.
As He covers us, He will protect and guide us. He must always be our first love.
Assignment: Read Chapter 11 “Retreating with the Lord” in Every Woman’s Battle.
February 26
“Walking In Integrity” (Minister Dominique Horton)
Christ paid the price on the cross for our freedom. We don’t want to be secret agents. Living a Christian life but
hiding dark secrets.
How do we live a life of integrity in every area of our lives? How do we enjoy our freedom?
Assignment: Read Chapter 12 “All Quiet on the Home Front” in Every Woman’s Battle.
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